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Sex
toys are for perverts, weirdoes, sluts or freaks.
All kinds
of people use sex toys, including people most would consider
perfectly normal. Perverts, weirdos, sluts and freaks use sex
toys, but so do doctors, lawyers, housewives, teachers, accountants,
bus
drivers, secretaries and just about anyone else you can think
of. Using
a sex toy doesn't make you "weird." It just makes
you have an orgasm! If your partner has this fear, suggest that
he or she talk to his or her friends about it, or do some Intemet
research on the subject. Your lover might be surprised by how
common sex toy usage is.
Sex
toys are just for masturbation.
While sex
toys are commonly used for solo sex, many couples enjoy using
sex toys together, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation.
It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with your relationship.
Usually the kinds of people who are comfortable trying new things
together are open-minded, intimate, comfortable and trusting.
Using a sex toy together is a good way to reaffirm the strength
of your relationship. If your lover has this concern, try giving
him or her a book
on using sex toys to add excitement to your partnership. There's
lots of them!
Your
partner will feel inadequate if you start using a sex toy.
Many people
express concern that bringing a sex toy into their relationship
will hurt their partner's feelings. It's understandable: a huge,
vibrating penis that brings you to climax every time? Who wouldn't
be jealous? Seriously, a sex toy can give you an orgasm, but
it can't cuddle with you afterwards. Sex toys will never replace
live humans. If your lover has this fear, be sensitive and stroke
his or her ego a little bit. As with most relationship issues,
good communication can go a long way to solving the problem.
Using
sex toys can be physically dangerous.
Absolutely
untrue! In fact, sex toys can have very positive effects on
your sexual health. For example, menopausal women can use dildos
to
maintain vaginal tone, heading off incontinence and other sexual
health
issues. Many doctors and therapists recommend sex toys to women
who have trouble reaching orgasm. And finally, a healthy relationship
with your body is beneficial to your overall health. Using sex
toys heightenes your awareness of your body and its functions,
making you more alert to abnormalities such as bumps, lumps
or abrasions. If your partner is worried about physical dangers,
sit down and surf the Internet together. Any sexual or general
health site can alay his or her fears.
If
you use sex toys too much, you won't have an orgasm with your
partner.
I hear that
one all the time. Yes, the earthshaking orgasms produced
by a vibrator can be psychologically addictive, but they don't
take the
place of a real person. Think about it: most people have been
using their hands to masturbate since they were young, yet they
usually prefer partner sex to solo sex, don't they? If your
partner is afraid you'll replace him or her with your battery-powered
pal, promise him or her that you'll keep your sex life varied:
try different positions, new toys, role playing and fantasy,
both in partner sex and solo sex. Boredom and repetition often
cause sexual death.
If
your relationship is solid, there's no reason why you should
need a sex toy.
As already
suggested, using a sex toy with your lover can actually strengthen
your relationship. You need to have a certain amount of
closeness to share this intimate new experience together. Using
a sex toy can be a good affirmation of that closeness. If your
lover doesn't think you need a sex toy to brighten up your sex
life, assure him or her that
you don't need a sex toy either, you'd just like to try
one. Again, your local bookstore has many books on sexual intimacy.
Your lover might be persuaded.
Buying
sex toys can be really embarrassing.
I agree,
which is one of the reasons why the internet is such a great
placeand anonymous place to buy them! Seriously, if you aren't
comfortable going to a sex shop and picking out a dildo, you
have lots of other options. You and your partner can order from
a catalog or a website.
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